Everything about unplan, in plain words.
How the weekly sealed plan works, what each screen does and what to tap, from pairing up to the afterglow. Written for couples; the same words the app uses.
The basics, in thirty seconds.
- One sealed plan a week. Two days before your date night (Thursday at 6 PM for a Saturday), you both get the same plan, sealed: the mood, the spend and when to leave, never the places.
- You each vote in private. Two yeses open it: the places, the times, the table and the calendar invite. Your partner only ever sees that you voted, never how.
- A no opens one last call. One alternative, never a list. If neither works, a free at-home plan lands instead.
- Your rules are hard limits. How far, how much, how you get around, food, alcohol and the nights you are free: a plan never breaks them.
- The night is the easy part. Leave when the app says, tap when you're done, and tell it the next day how it went. It learns.
New here? Start with getting started. Looking for a word? Try the glossary. Short answers are in the FAQ.
Start here
Getting started
Sign in with a code, pair up, set your rules and add unplan to your home screen. About ten minutes.
Glossary
Every unplan word in plain English: the seal, the last call, guardrails, afterglow and the rest.
Your week
Your weekly plan
From the sealed plan to the reveal: voting in private, the last call, staying in, Plan B and skipping a week.
Plan a date yourself
Organise a date yourself: pick a few places, send sealed cards, and your partner picks one. Plus one blind surprise.
Your date night, plan format and shared interests
Pick your date night, a full evening or a quick date, the things you both like, and your private date style.
The night
What to do once the night arrives: leaving on time, breadcrumb mode, running late, no signal, and the afterglow.
Us and your account
Your account
Everything under Us: shared rules, language, units and clock, notifications, your city, unpairing, your data.
- The Us tab at a glance
- Shared guardrails
- Language
- Units and clock
- Notifications
- Your date style
- Your idea box
- Plan night
- Changing your city
- Unpairing
- Leaving at once or changing partner
- When your partner leaves
- Your past journal
- Away, light mode and moving
- Bringing company
- Circles
- Kids
- More than one couple
- Voting from email
- Bringing a friend on your own
- Lost access to your old account
- Getting back together
- Blocking
- Signing out
- Downloading your data
- Deleting your account
Your city: what's on, Saved for us, and a night for yourself
What's on in your city, Saved for us, and a night for yourself: all of it works before your partner joins.
Special dates and the romance quiz
Keep anniversaries and birthdays, get a nudge before them, and take the private romance quiz.
Keep the Spark and extras
Keep the Spark
Free, Set up this date, or Keep the Spark: what each includes, cancelling, refunds, gift codes and double dates.
Your concierge
A quiet helper for the things around a date. It suggests, you confirm; it never books on its own.
Services and your assistant
Perks from vetted partners and travel ideas: how they are chosen, and how your privacy is kept.
Connect your own AI
Let your own AI assistant plan with your concierge, with a token you control. Confirming is always you.
When you need help
Troubleshooting
A link that will not open, a code that did not arrive, no notifications, no plan on Thursday: the fixes.
- My partner’s link will not open
- The sign-in code did not arrive
- I keep being asked to sign in
- I get no notifications on my iPhone
- I did not get Thursday’s plan
- The app shows the wrong city
- My partner is not responding
- The plan looks wrong
- I paid but the Spark is not on
- My gift code did not work
- How to contact help
Help and reports
Write to a person from the app, report a problem or a safety concern, and follow the answer.
For venues
For venues
For venue owners: putting your place forward, table holds, what couples see and what we never share.