The waitlist is not a queue you sit in while nothing happens. It is how the first Stockholm plans get built. We want to know which couples want this in the city, which nights are usually free, and what a good evening looks like for you, before the first sealed plan is sent.
It is also how we know which couples are ready to go out more and decide less. Here is what joining does, and what it does not.
What the waitlist asks of you #
Three things. The nights that are usually free. The budget an evening should stay inside. The things you both like, and the things you would rather skip.
You do it once. After that, the choosing is ours, and you stop being the couple who spends a Friday deciding.
What your first week looks like #
One sealed plan arrives for both of you each week, on the same evening of the week, so you can build a habit around it rather than a surprise you have to fit in.
Not a list of options. One plan, with a time and a place, sealed until you both answer. You vote without seeing each other's answer. Two yeses and it opens: the time, the details and the calendar invites land in both calendars at once.
Plain. Quiet. Handled.
Why the vote is blind #
Because the choosing is where most date nights die. One of you always ends up being the one who suggests, and the other ends up being the one who agrees to be nice.
A blind vote takes that out. Neither of you sees the other's answer, so neither of you can bend yours to keep the peace. If it is yes from both of you, you are both going. If it is not, nobody has to be the difficult one.
When a plan is not your night #
You say no and nothing happens. No negotiation, no guilt, no chain of rebooking. A new plan arrives the following week, and the week after that.
Every plan is built to stay inside the budget you set, so an evening never turns into a conversation about money at the end of it.
Coming soon to Stockholm #
unplan.me opens in Stockholm soon. Couples who want date nights without the planning can join the waitlist at unplan.me/stockholm and be there for the first sealed plans.
FAQ #
What does joining the waitlist actually do?
It puts you in line for the first Stockholm plans and lets us shape them around the couples who are waiting. You share your free nights, your budget and your interests once, so the first plan you receive already knows what you like.
Do we both need to vote?
Yes, that is the whole mechanism. One plan, two private answers. Two yeses open it. One no and it stays sealed, and a new plan arrives the following week.
What if a plan does not suit us?
You say no. No explanation needed, and nothing to rearrange. The following week brings a new one.
